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He Loves Me, He loves me NOT

Some of you woman are very confused at the direction in what you want out of love. You know that you want a man to love you and that you want to be respected and hugged and held and told that your beautiful.

You engage in relationships that are all fine and dandy, you fall in love and your floating on cloud nine and then BAM! he slaps the shit out of you or you catch him doing the lizard lap and barbwire twist at another woman’s house while you stalk him at 2:00 in the AM.

You all of a sudden find yourself questioning every woman he walks 3 feet in front or in back of, and you’ll be damned if his neighbors short haired female cat brushes up against him. War to that WHORE ass cat! YET….

Yet when he comes to you and starts speaking those sweet nothing which really are just nothing, you find yourself sucked back into the word of cuntantry and smiling back in his face. Ladies! ladies! Ladies! If you want a man to respect YOU, then you HAVE to respect yourself first. You bad mouth your man all over the world and the next week your there applying lotion to his ashy back. It’s Not HIM it’s you. Get it together. Too Often I hear about someones man doing this and that, and then all of a sudden, you in love again. Pick one. Does he love you, or does he not love you??? if you think he’s not getting the picture. CHECK the shit out of him and then see what happens. Don’t sit around waiting for him to come to you. you go to him and pull out all the stops. Get in his face, learn to duck when he flinches, and don’t back down until you have solved your problems. If your not doing what your supposed to do spice up your life (I’ll get into that in a later post) They say they don’t like all the drama but if they didn’t they wouldn’t be starting no drama. Do this once and he’s be good for ever

ladies we are born with the talent of manipulation USE IT, if you can’t seem to manipulate your man in a respectful (don’t turn him into a bitch) way or if you can’t do it at all, he ain’t the one for you and you need to leave it and him alone. Easier said then done… Nope, Just do it! I’m so tired of seeing the back and forth, up and down emotions. Breaking up to get back together tomorrow is for the lames. If you make a conscious effort to work it out with someone… make the damn effort, stick with it, figure it out. Trial and error, and keep your business as tight as you can. Don’t broadcast what a dog ass playa he is to the world and the next minute telling the world how amazing he is. Keep that mess to yourself. No one needs to know how STUPID you are or how silly you sound.

March 8, 2010   //   Ask Dr. Hotsauce   //   1 Comment   //  

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