My locks started out curly and after pulling at my hair all day they are completely straight.  Why am i stressed one might ask, because i think too much about the dumb shit that i shouldn’t be thinking about. I guess i’m just really big on communication and when i don’t get any from people that I have enlisted to help me in my journey, i just get really frustrated. From Big business professionals to small business owners, to friends that are just good at certain things. Im so tired of the not returned phone calls, the ignored emails, and the dismissed facebook inbox msgs. How do i get a hold of you people???

I just feel like it’s rude. I feel like in working with other people that lack proper communication skills, it’s almost like being an an emotionally abusive relationship and not being able to get out of it because you vow to make it work out. Especially after you have put money into your cause you just feel like at this point…. someone needs to pay attention.

I guess i just needed to vent because my mind runs faster then my body moves. I usually think about the next step before my body starts the prior one. I jump to goal number 5 before i properly execute goal number 2. Im always ahead of myself. I need to settle down. How? no idea. I guess until then i just have to kinda get over it and do some woosahh exercises. Breath in Breath out. So in thinking about ways to de-stress i came up with 5 common sense tips that i use to calm down when i realize that there is nothing i can do.

How To Not Slit your Wrist when stressed

1. SCREAM into a pillow… it helps to release the tension in your throat

2. Blog is out.. write something, let go and just write, it doesn’t have to be organized it just need to be  your thoughts. When your down either publish it or erase it

3. Eat a burger… they say not to eat when your stressed because you body will start to depend on food in the time of aggyness, but i say to hell with that Eat something that you love! comfort yourself and just enjoy some time not thinking about why your stressed

4. Go to sleep… When your mind won’t stop mentally cussing everyone out, get in your bed, read a book until you fall asleep, when you wake up you’ll be so lazy that nothing else really matter, tackle all the shit tomorrow.

5.Pray… Ask God to just help you get though one of the prior suggestions and thank him in advance for making you feel better

About 3 months ago I was terminated from my corporate prison cubicle and set free in the untamed world of foolishness, overly priced fruits and vegetables, and the eye opening realization that money does not grow on trees. I vowed to use my government saving until i could find a job that would make me happy or to give my own ideas a chance to flourish and strive. The latter of which I created and am now watching grow into a lunch money making business. She goes by the name “Sauce-New England” An entertainment site dedicated to easing the thousands of daily invites regarding events going on in Boston and the surrounding areas. So long are the days when handing on fliers and posting banners about the fun unique event their having, instead facebook and its users are being harasses and stalked by promoters offering the same party that they had the week before but with a differnt theme and a different invitation.

So, what I did was come up with a concept that many of done before but have failed because I obviously don’t know about them. Not to say that i don’t have some stiff competition out there somewhere but i’m almost positive that i have this in the bag due to the adorable success that I have gotten so far. Basically what I did was create a network for people to find out what is going on around town in one spot, one website, one place… something that you can just go to and click on the date and find out all that is happening around New england on that day. You don’t have to sit down and watch 5 minutes of video to get to one event, you can just skim it, rsvp to it, get on the guest list and move on from there.

No doubt I have found it challenging to get people involved, it’s also very tiresome and stressful to try to make sure that the website stays up to date with all the latest and greatest. Because i’m such a business minded person i find it hard to ask someone for help with out being able to off them some kind of incentive. When starting a small business you soon begin to realize that this is your baby. This is what you do, this is your own personal seed that you are trying to nourish and feed and watch grow into something lucrative and successful.

Often times i want to reach out to people that have like minded concepts but i get scared that someone will try and turn my vision into something that it wasn’t created to be. i often feel like if i sweat and strive by myself that i can get more accomplished and stay on the right track. What I need to realize is that it okay to ask for help, it is okay to delegate, just as long as you stay on the right path and stay focused.

i’ll be updating you guys on the process and my life as a business owner/socialite step by step, so stay tuned…. the Fun has only just begun

IN the mean time Log on, Become a member and stay in the know…. www.thehotsauce617.ning.com

Im so bored with doing celebrity gossip, and im too lazy to write my own things but I think that’s the road I have decided to venture down. I’ll still update this blog with what’s happening in Boston but i’ll put my own flare and twist on things, make them a little more personal.

After all… i am a socialite so i’ll use this blog to highlight my adventure outside in the world. The people I meet and see, the drinks i drink and vomit. The men i deny and the ones that i try to flirt with, with out disrespecting my commited relationship (giggles)

I’ll take pics so you can see what im talking about…. if you want to know all the happenings in Boston, hit up my social network www.thehotsauce617.ning.com log on a become a member and don’t forget to add your events if you don’t see them there

I have only heard from other people that I am weird, I have yet to notice it myself. But Erykah Badu definitely is weird. At least that is what i thought until I got a chance to meet with her back stage. Before we get to that, The concert was wonderful. Jonelle Monae opened up the night with her soulful oldies feel music. Not to be outdone by Erykah because Jonelle had her own following, by following I say there were people there dressed in her signature white full sleeved, puffy shouldered collard shite, black slacks, and little dancing shoes. Yes, there was a whole group of them just dancing and singing along to her music. Her music was a little much for me, but there was a point where she stood on top of a stool and sang a love ballad that gave me goosebumps. After a brief intermission Erykah Baduwas introduced to the stage and the soulfulness of her being surrounded the orpheum theatre. Or maybe it was the 24 oz beer that I forced myself to drink and enjoy. Needless to say she didn’t get naked. No window seat for us.

After the show, she held a meet and greet and we met in the basement of the Orpheum. As Erykah ate veggie patties and lettuce off of a platter along side Jonelle Monae. She spoke to her small audience about her album, her life, and her inspiration. It was at this small informal meeting that I realized that unlike a lot of other artist, Erykah was genuinely NOT full of shit. She is weird because she believes in what she says and she stands by her decisions and works through them, She’s real and spoke to us like we were old friends. It was a moving experience, and I’m happy to say I got to be a part of it

pics by: TOMMY

Yes People, Boston Does have a summer Jam, and if you listen to Jamn 94.5 you probably tried and had many failed attempts at trying to win tickets. I must admit I tried 3 exact times to win and I didn’t even make it through to the ring tone. So since I wasn’t there I stole some pics from from the Jamn website and posted them here for you reading and watching convenience. I heard Nicki, Drake and Lupe Fiasco (who was not scheduled to be there) and Trey songs really put it down. Luda went last, but I didn’t hear anything fancy about him OH WELL!!

Also on set were: B.O.B, Serani, Sam Adams, Kevin Rudolf, Clinton Sparks, Taio Cruz, and other randoms

No, this one was not as interesting and drama filled like Hot97 (ny) summer jam. But, HEY WYF do you want from us??? you can go on to see video’s and interviews HERE

Lloyd Banks did his thing at The Roxy in Worchester, right outside of Boston. I’m hearing that a lot of drama surrounded this event, but every one is being kinda hush hush about it.  once i get into the heart and pants or find a suitable groupie to suck the information out of the promoters and bookers I’ll start informing you on the juicy details.

Pics: Tommy

I came across a leaked song by Lloyd Banks, and i figured i would share it with you. didn’t have the patience to listen to it, but let me know what you think, based on your responses i’ll judge weather or not it’s listening material

“Yous a Hoe”

Sanchez and Flourgon passed though Boston for a special mother’s day concert on Saturday. From what I heard it was packed and Sanchez really did his thing. Sanchez new album “Now and Forever” hit stand earlier this year. He perfomed lots new songs from the album, and it wouldn’t be a concert with out taking it back and time and hitting us with those classic chart bangers

First of let me start by saying that Bobby Brown is both Ashy and Greasy at the same time… His body is confused. CRACK IS WHACK

Bobby Brown and Manager Alicia Etheridge are engaged lets hear those claps!! cake and crack for everybody! let me hear you say SHOOP!

For concertgoers at Metro Park in Jacksonville, Fla., on Friday, the hottest ticket at the annual Funk Fest wasn’t the performance by ’90s girl group SWV or the line for fruity refreshments as temperatures climbed into the 90s. It was watching singer Bobby Brown propose to his girlfriend of nearly three years, manager Alicia Etheridge.

Holding their son. Etheridge joined Brown on stage as he got down on one knee and presented her with a ring. The crowd roared its approval as a beaming Etheridge kissed Brown, who remained kneelin

I love black crack love… it is strong and full of pretty illusions of happiness.. I wish them the best of luck and reality shows. -source

Drake’s Video “Find your Love” Directed by Kanye West….

Plays out like a movie… Sitting at work trying hard to not be interrupted I found myself sipping on my bomb ass ice tea and turning the volume up to the half way mark… all the while looking into my rare view mirror (yes i have on my computer) to make sure no one is coming, and analyzing every part of that video… that chick has a really big ass and I would like someone to teach me how to spoke like that that.

Watch it, it’s nice…

What say you???

By Now, you should have all heard about Lawrence Taylor… Ex NFL NY Giants Football Star (there has to be an easier way i could have wrote that) Anyways, this last week he was arrested on charges of statuary rape of a 16 year old run-away prostitute. The Young girl was said to be beaten and forced to provide services to Taylor prior to the encounter. She was offered $300 and they said that Taylor suspected that she was 19 years old. read the rest of the story below….

Regardless of what happened, Taylor would not have been in this mess if he had remembered that he was married. Hh by the way, his wife is sticking by his side. *sigh* i don’t know what the real story is but where there is smoke there is fire… I’ll keep you updated with more information.

Taylor, a 51-year-old former New York Giants star who has faced drug and tax evasion charges in the past, paid the girl $300 for sex in a Holiday Inn, where he was arrested early Thursday, said Christopher St. Lawrence, supervisor of the town of Ramapo.

The man who’d beaten the girl drove her to Taylor’s suburban hotel room, police said.

Ramapo Chief of Police Peter Brower said Taylor was cooperative when police woke him up around 4 a.m. Taylor was arraigned Thursday on charges of third-degree rape and patronizing a prostitute.

“I’m not that important,” Taylor told a scrum of media after being released on $75,000 bail.

His attorney, Arthur Aidala, said Taylor is a “loving family man” who did not have sex with the teenager.

“My client did not have sex with anybody,” Aidala said. “Lawrence Taylor did not rape anybody.”

Brower would not comment on whether Taylor knew the girl’s age; third-degree rape is a charge levied when the victim is under the age of consent, which is 17 in New York. - source